穷人和富人的区别 [zz]

穷人为什么成不了富人?

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常做健身操拯救“电脑脖” [zz]

长时间地低头作业很容易造成颈椎过度劳损，有人因此患上颈椎病、腰椎病等所谓职业病。专家针对电脑一族编制了一套保健人体各部位的健身操，整套操由20个主要动作组成，在柔和的音乐下缓慢地练习，大约15分钟即可。
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Man and Woman [zz]

她的日记:

昨天晚上他真的是非常非常古怪。我们本来约好了一起去一个餐厅吃晚饭。

但是我白天和我好朋友去购物了，结果就去晚了一会儿,可能就因此让他不高兴了。他一直不理睬我，气氛僵极了。后来我主动让步，说我们都退一步，好好的交流一下吧。他虽然同意了，但是还是继续沉默，一副无精打采心不在焉的样子。我问他到底怎么了，他只说’没事。’后来我就问他，是不是我惹他生气了。他说，这不关我的事，让我不要管。在回家的路上我对他说，我爱他。但是他只是继续开车，一点反应也没有。我真的不明白啊，我不知道他为什么不再说’我也爱你’了。我们到家的时候我感觉，我可能要失去他了，因为他已经不想跟我有什么关系了，他不想理我了。他坐在那儿什么也不说，就只是闷着头的看电视, 继续发呆，继续无精打采。后来我只好自己上床睡去了。10分钟以后他爬到床上来了,他一直都在想别的什么。他的心思根本不在我这里！这真的是太让我心痛了。我决定要跟他好好的谈一谈。但是他居然就已经睡着了！我只好躺在他身边默默的流泪，后来哭着哭着睡着了。我现在非常的确定，他肯定是有了别的女人了。这真的像天塌下来了一样。天哪，我真不知道我活着还有什么意义。

他的日记:

tmd今天意大利居然输了。。。

职场秘籍 [zz]

要是你以为单靠熟练的技能和辛勤的工作就能在职场上出人头地，那你就有点无知了。当然，才干加上超时加班固然很重要，但懂得在关键时刻说适当的话，那也是成功与否的决定性因素。卓越的说话技巧，譬如讨好重要人物、避免麻烦事落到自己身上、处理棘手的事务等等，不仅能让你的工作生涯加倍轻松,更能让你名利双收。牢记以下十个句型，并在适当时刻派上用场，加薪与升职必然离你不远。

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Gallery 2 Beta 1 (Dark Fibre)

If you have been my photo gallery recently, you may have already noticed that it is upgraded. Yes, I am using the new Beta 1 version of Gallery which is more stable and fancy than the Alpha version.

My hosting users, if you need this upgrade, please submit a support ticket or leave a message here.

MSN Messenger Contact List Size Doubled

Hi all MSNers!

Just a piece of quick good news that you can now add 300 persons to your MSN Messenger contact list. There is no 150 limit anymore. This has been effective since last week and I hope this is not tooooooooooooooooooooold.

Learn It From Lexy – How DO You Approach a Stranger for Sex? [zz]

by Lexy London

How DO You Approach a Stranger for Sex?

Most weeks I give some sort of advice about how to have sex, this week, I’m going to shock everyone by giving advice not to have sex. At least not immediately. The question comes from a reader in Pakistan whose situation is likely not unique.

I will be getting married in 5 weeks time. The problem is that in Pakistan most marriages are arranged (99%) – basically the parents of the guy and girl get together and decide the marriage of their children.

Please help. I don’t have much time.

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A Very Long Engagement

很好看的一部电影，没有像“Amelie”那么复杂难懂，整部影片用一种不紧不慢的速度叙述了一个寻找失散爱人的故事，然而所有人的心情都是那么紧张，包括我。

如果要用IMDB的基准给“A Very Long Engagement”评分的话，我会给8分。首先是影片的效果超级真实，宏大的战争场面，泥泞的战壕，骨肉模糊的伤痕，子弹飕飕地飞过，炮弹落地后血肉和土壤同时从天而降……

这次看的是翻译过的cut version，可能还有些东西没有感受到，不知道看过original uncut version后会不会更高分呢？

Out & In

Office Affairs

Have you ever fallen in love with one of your coworkers? Or, have you ever tried to date your colleague? Okay, it may be a good idea twenty years ago. People prefer to seek their spouse in the same factory or organization. Then they can share the transportation to work, have better benefits and housing condition…more over, you usually know your coworkers better.

But it is totally different nowadays. It has been more and more a common sense that not to be involved with the people from your workplace. Most companies have such a hidden rule that office love is nor recommended or even forbidden.

I don’t know the reason why more and more executives made this rule official and documented. I guess, the largest difference now and 20 years ago is that we don’t do a job lifelong. There are so many reasons for us to leave a company and find a new one. A bigger paycheck, a better working environment, a workplace near your just-bought-apartment, or you got fired unfortunately…oh, count this one, office affairs. To avoid rumors or a bright career future, people usually choose to quit in case they are involved in any office crush. I mean they quit the job or the affair.

The boss may not like you to disturb his secretary or the accountant. Your relationship may be crystal pure but you two can’t avoid behaving “inappropriately” in the office. The modern business rule is simple and fast. If you can avoid personal emotion on the job, just do it. Your boss just expect that!